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How to Work With Me

Whether you're looking for hands-on bodywork, a deep 1:1 transformation, a guided self-practice or a group journey alongside other men, there's a pathway here for you. Everything I offer is rooted in somatic sexology, Taoist erotic practices and clinical hypnotherapy, designed specifically for gay, bi, queer and trans men.

Scroll down to find all my offers and services from self-study online programs, my self-pleasure app for gay men, my 1:1 and group programs, massage and body work sessions and more…

My Services and Offers

  • 1:1 Somatic Sex Therapy and Coaching

    1:1 Somatic Sex Therapy and Coaching

    Deep, sustained transformation over weeks or months. These programmes combine clinical hypnotherapy, somatic sex coaching and erotic energy work through the Erotic Evolution Method. Available in person in London and online worldwide.

    We work together on whatever is most alive for you. Compulsive sexual patterns, sexual shame, intimacy fears, performance anxiety, porn use, body confidence, erotic self-discovery. The programme is tailored entirely to your needs and moves at your pace.

    This is for you if: You're ready to invest in lasting change. You want a guide who understands this territory from the inside. You've tried other approaches and something is still missing. You want to work with your mind, your body and your erotic energy together rather than in isolation.

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    Somatic Erotic Bodywork

    Professional, therapeutic, erotic bodywork in my private studio in Hackney, East London. Sessions blend conscious erotic touch, Taoist erotic massage, breathwork, Body Poem and nervous system regulation. You lead the experience throughout. You learn to feel, communicate and receive with full presence. Sessions run from 60 minutes to 2 hours.

    This is for you if: You want to reconnect with your body and your pleasure. You're seeking healing through touch. You're navigating erectile difficulties, premature ejaculation or numbness. You want a deeper, more conscious experience of erotic pleasure with a practitioner who understands gay men's bodies and lives.

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    Erotic Evolution 3 Month Transformation Progam

    A guided group journey for gay men all over the world who are ready to transform their relationship with sex, pleasure and intimacy. Over 12 weeks you'll move through guided erotic practices, somatic exercises, hypnosis, intimacy journaling and community connection. Small group. Deeply intimate. Profoundly transformative.

    This is for you if: You want the depth of personal transformation combined with the power of doing the work alongside other men. You're done with the apps, the porn loops and the compulsive cycles. You're ready to discover an erotic power in yourself you didn't know was there.

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    Masturbation Mastery

    A 7-day self-guided course that teaches you Taoist erotic techniques, mindful masturbation and full-body pleasure practices. Relearn self-pleasure in 20 minutes a day. Includes a 36-page illustrated guidebook, a Core Erotic Themes workbook, guided erotic meditation and personal coaching support.

    This is for you if: You want to start changing your relationship with self-pleasure immediately. You're stuck in fast, mechanical, porn-driven masturbation habits and you know there's more available to you. You want a powerful companion practice alongside any of my other offerings.

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    Mindful Masturbation 1:1 Coaching

    Go deeper with private sessions to help unlock your subconscious blocks around self-pleasure and get the most from your masturbation practice. These sessions combine guided somatic self-touch, breathwork coaching, hypnotherapy and erotic energy work. Available in person and online.

    This is for you if: You've tried Masturbation Mastery and want to go further. You're dealing with specific challenges around arousal, ejaculation or sensation during self-pleasure. You want personal guidance from a practitioner rather than working through a course alone.

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    Self-Pleasure Portal App

    An interactive app with themed practice decks, guided sessions and somatic self-pleasure tools. A growing resource for men who want ongoing support with their conscious erotic practice.

Free Resources For Gay Men

My Substack, Evolution For Gay Men, is a library of free sex education, somatic practice guides and personal essays on erotic healing for gay men. New articles published regularly.

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