What Gay Men Are Saying About
Somatic Sex Therapy

Somatic Erotic Bodywork Testimonials

Before working with Gary, I carried a lot of embedded gay shame, fear of intimacy and a long-standing anxiety around sex in general. I wasn’t sure hypnotherapy and this somatic stuff could shift something so deep, but Gary’s spontaneous, non-judgmental way of challenging my beliefs made it easy to trust the process. Those old narratives no longer fully run my life and I feel calmer, more open and far more accepting of myself. Gary’s other events like Pleasure Medicine and Slow Dating+ have also genuinely changed how I connect with myself and others. For anyone considering working with him, do it. This work has been transformative in ways I didn’t expect!
— Naro Velin
This man is a true pleasure whisperer. His touch is other worldly. Quite a cosmic experience. And the body poem is beautiful
— Matt
That was extraordinary. I never knew it was possible to feel such sensations. Gary’s guidance and touch are on point.
— Manu
I thought I was going for a standard sensual massage, but this was another level. Asking for what I wanted was quite something. I experienced new levels of pleasure.
— Michael
Wow... that was mind-blowing. I never knew I could experience such levels of physical pleasure. The structure and format was new, but I soon got into it and to be able to ask for exactly what I want was incredible. It’s changed how I have sex with my partners for sure.
— Paul

Your Experience Could Be Next

Every man's journey is different. Whether you're seeking somatic erotic bodywork, 1:1 sex coaching, hypnotherapy or a guided programme, the starting point is the same. A free Connection Call where we talk openly about where you're at and what you're looking for.