Frequently Asked Questions
What do you offer?
I offer somatic erotic bodywork (gay male massage), 1:1 sex coaching programmes, clinical hypnotherapy and online courses for gay, bi, queer and trans men. All of my work focuses on helping men heal their relationship with sex, pleasure, intimacy and their own bodies. Sessions are available in person at my private studio in Hackney, East London and online worldwide.
Who is this for?
Gay, bi, queer and trans men of all ages, body types and experience levels. You might be dealing with something specific like erectile difficulties, premature ejaculation, compulsive sexual behaviour or sexual shame. Or you might simply want to deepen your relationship with pleasure, presence and intimacy. Experienced or completely new to this kind of work, you're welcome here.
What happens in a somatic erotic bodywork session?
Every session begins with a conversation about your intentions, your desires and your boundaries. We then move into Body Poem, a guided practice where you connect with what your body actually wants. The bodywork itself blends conscious touch, Taoist erotic techniques, breathwork and movement, all shaped by you in real time. You're coached to notice sensation, communicate what you want and receive touch with full presence. Sessions end with stillness and integration on a heated massage table.
Is this a sexual service?
No. While sessions can include genital touch, prostate massage and erotic energy work, I do not offer explicit sexual services. I remain clothed throughout. Touch flows one way only, from me to you. This is professional, ethical somatic erotic bodywork held within clear boundaries and the ACSB code of ethics.
How long are sessions?
Massage and bodywork sessions run from 60 minutes to 2 hours depending on your needs. We'll discuss what feels right during our initial conversation. Coaching and hypnotherapy sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes.
How much does it cost?
Pricing depends on the type and length of session or programme. Get in touch via WhatsApp or book a free Connection Call and I'll walk you through the options that fit your needs and budget.
Do you offer online sessions?
Yes. Hypnotherapy, sex coaching, guided self-pleasure practices, breathwork and erotic energy work all translate effectively to online sessions via video call. I work with clients worldwide. The only element that requires in-person attendance is hands-on bodywork.
What is a Connection Call?
A free, relaxed conversation (usually 15 to 20 minutes) where we talk openly about where you're at, what you're looking for and whether this work feels right for you. No sales pressure. No awkwardness. If I can help, I'll explain what the next steps look like. If I think someone else would serve you better, I'll point you in that direction.
What is the Erotic Evolution Method?
My integrated approach to sexual healing for gay men. It combines three pillars. Sexual Subconscious (using hypnotherapy to reprogram the beliefs driving your patterns), Sexual Somatics (body-based practices to rebuild your relationship with arousal and pleasure) and Erotic Rewiring (working consciously with your fantasies, desires and erotic energy as tools for transformation).
What is Taoist Erotic Massage?
Taoist Erotic Massage is a practice developed by Joseph Kramer in 1986 that uses conscious touch, breathwork, sound and movement to build erotic energy and circulate it through the entire body. The result is sustained, full-body pleasure rather than a rush towards ejaculation. It's particularly powerful for men dealing with premature ejaculation, erectile challenges or a limited range of erotic sensation.
What is Sexological Bodywork?
A professionally certified, body-based approach to sex education and erotic healing. It works directly with touch, arousal and the nervous system within a rigorous ethical framework. I train with the School of Somatic Sexology under Kian de la Cour. You can read my full guide to Sexological Bodywork here.
What issues can you help with?
Compulsive sexual behaviour and out of control patterns with sex, porn or apps. Erectile dysfunction and performance anxiety. Premature ejaculation. Sexual shame, guilt and fear. Difficulty with intimacy, vulnerability and connection. Low libido or libido in overdrive. Numbness, dissociation or lack of presence during sex. Compulsive porn use. Body image issues affecting sexual confidence. And any man who simply wants a richer, more alive relationship with his erotic self.
Do I need to prepare for a session?
No special preparation is needed. Shower beforehand if you're coming for bodywork. Wear whatever you're comfortable in. Bring an open mind and a willingness to be honest about what you're experiencing. Everything else is guided.
Is everything confidential?
Completely. Your privacy is respected at every stage, from the initial conversation through to the session itself and beyond. I do not share personal information and there is no public record of your visit.
Where are you based?
I work from my private studio in Hackney, East London (E5 0LP). The nearest stations are Homerton, Clapton and Hackney Downs, all a short walk away. Full address and directions are shared once you book.
How do I get started?
The easiest way is to message me on WhatsApp or book a free Connection Call. We'll have a relaxed conversation about what you're looking for and go from there.