The best sexual and erotic pleasure of your life is still ahead of you my friend!
But nobody has ever taught you how to experience it — are you ready?
But first of all, I understand where you’re at…
You’re probably thinking:
👀 “Where the F do I begin, this is a complex thing to start?”
👀 “Can this even help my specific problems and challenges?!”
👀 “Is this for me? Am I too: young or old, not experienced enough? Can I afford this”
👀 “Will I have time, I’m busy, what does this involve?”
Take a breath my friend,
I’ve got ya back! Read on…
Erotic Awakening…
… is a step-by-step 8-week guided program that builds your sexual confidence, turns on full body erotic arousal and sensation…
… and unlocks sex and self-pleasure that is exciting, playful, passionate, hot and horny again.
This programme is for gay, bi, queer and questioning men of any age, from your 20s to your 90s!
Single, partnered, open, poly or monogamous.
Top, bottom, vers, kinky, vanilla or completely new to all of it.
And it’s built for the busy man who hasn’t got hours of spare time.
What Past Students Are Saying
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"When I first saw this course I thought I was too old and it was too late for me. I'm 71. Boy was I wrong. My libido is switched right on after just a few weeks of these amazing practices, Gary's guidance and the support from the community calls. What an experience!"
— David
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"This is one of the best investments I've made in a long time. I thought I couldn't afford it at first. But having gone through it, I realise I couldn't afford NOT to do it. Especially the way I masturbate and self pleasure now. Totally orgasmic"
— Neri
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"Gary guides you every step of the way, telling you what to do each day and each week. It's laid out so well and easy to follow. I run my own business and only spent about 5-10 minutes a day doing the practices! It really works. The Wake Up Your Wank module alone was a game changer for me"
— Peter
Your sexual confidence, fully body erotic pleasure and multi-orgasmic experience is as simple as 1, 2, 3…
1. Sexual Somatics
Learn new ways to touch yourself and be touched so that pleasure, arousal and sensation move through your entire body. By the end you’ll experience your whole body as one big sexual organ rather than the few square inches you’ve been focused on your whole adult life.
2. Sexual Subconscious
Deep mind and nervous system work that rewrites the old stories and beliefs holding you back, changing how you think and feel about yourself as a sexual man, so you can finally relax into being the confident erotic being you already are inside.
3. Erotic Re-Wiring
Explore your kinks, fantasies and sexual imagination as a doorway into your unmet needs and desires, releasing the shame so you can start having fun in the creative playground of your own turn-ons.
These are the 3 moving parts to the Erotic Awakening method.
Body | Mind | Erotic Wiring
You are taken into all 3, over 8 weeks, guided every step of the way…
The Erotic Awakening
Is Right For You If…
You’re bored with the way you’re wanking and having sex, watching porn and scrolling apps…
Ready to find out what is possible in your sex and self-pleasure life, if you just knew what to do…
Want to activate new parts of your body for pleasure that have been off line. Your nipples? Anal? And more…
You struggle to ask for what you want and fully receive it in a way that is deeply pleasurable…
Want to feel more confident, powerful and in control of your sexuality and erotic energy…
You desire stronger, harder, longer lasting erections, cum control and sex energy practices…
What Is Involved?
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Module 1 - Erotic Awakening: Setting the stage for your erotic empowerment...
Get clear on where you are, what’s holding you back and what you need to move forward.
Create a powerful vision for who you are becoming as a sexual and erotic man
Wake Up Your Wank: start to transform the way you masturbate for more intense pleasure
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Module 2 - Masturbation Mastery: Change the way you experience wanking forever
A whole new set of strokes, grips and rhythms, so your wank stops being the same four minutes you’ve been doing your whole life
Learn to build and ride your arousal instead of racing to the finish, so you last longer and feel a hell of a lot more pleasure
Turn your wank into the best twenty minutes of your day, full body, deeply pleasurable, and worth looking forward to
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Module 3 - Core Erotic Themes: Delve into your sexual psyche in a way you never have before
Finally understand what your fantasies and turn-ons are actually telling you and stop treating them like something to hide
Work out what belongs in your head and what you want to bring into your bed, so you can explore your kinks consciously instead of ridden with shame
Drop the shame that’s been sitting under your desire for years, and start enjoying your sexual imagination as the pleasure playground it was always meant to be
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Module 4 - Rest & Digest: Let everything you've experienced integrate
A full week to let everything land in your body, because the deepest changes happen in the pauses, not the pushing
A daily guided hypnosis session that takes the work below your conscious mind, where the old beliefs about yourself as a sexual man actually live
A chance to catch up on where you might have missed things or fallen behind
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Module 5 - Erotic Pleasure Dancing: The 3 ingredients of all sexual pleasure
Learn the three ingredients behind every intense sexual experience, breath, sound and movement, and why most men are gripped, silent and still, missing out on all of it
Move pleasure out of just your cock and through your whole body, so a good feeling becomes a full-body wave instead of something that stops at your groin
Wake up the parts of you that have been offline for years, your nipples, chest, armpits, spine, thighs and feet, and find sensitivity you never knew you had
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Module 6 - Anal Awakening: Connect with this heavenly part of your body in a (w)hole new way
Learn to touch, massage and finger your own hole properly, so you discover what it actually likes instead of guessing or gritting your teeth
Anal mapping and breathing techniques that help you open, relax and feel real pleasure back there, whether you’re a bottom, a top who’s curious, or somewhere in between
Turn a part of your body you’ve ignored, feared or written off into one of the most heavenly things you own
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Module 7 - The Wheel of Consent: Learn about communication, consent and connection
Get the words out of your mouth, so you can tell a man exactly what you want, how you want it, and stop leaving your pleasure to guesswork
Learn Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent, the clearest map there is for giving and receiving pleasure in equal measure
A playbook of touch and intimacy games to bring into hookups, dates and long-term relationships, with a solo version for every single one too
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Module 8 - Weaving It All Together: What to do with everything you've learned
Bring the whole eight weeks into one final guided erotic ceremony, where everything you’ve learned comes together in your body
Work out exactly what your ongoing practice looks like, so this keeps growing long after the course ends rather than fading out
Look back at where you started and see how far you’ve come, then step forward as the sexually confident man you’ve become
