THE BIG SEX RESET
A 30-day challenge for gay men who want to reset, rewire & renew your relationship to sex, your body & self-pleasure
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Starts January 7th 2027
Everything you need, everyday, to reset, rewire & renew your sex life, in 30 days…
It's time for a new year, new true you.
There's a version of yourself hiding inside.
And he's not a new you. He's the true you.
He's happier, more alive, more confident and in control of his sexual habits and his life in general.
He's having great sex, his wanks are orgasmic and leave him feeling fantastic for the rest of the day, rather than drained and depleted.
And he likes himself, knows his worth, feels his power and is letting go of behaviours and habits that no longer serve him; porn, apps, boring masturbation, crap hookups???
Forget the idea of new year, new you.
You're not broken. You don't need fixing. You don't need to become a new man.
You need to become the true you inside…
Sure, start going to the gym, cut out sugar, stop booze, stop smoking.
Whatever else is on your New Year's intentions list. Go for it! Love that for you…
But the biggest, most important missing piece in all of this is your relationship to how you touch yourself, your sexual pleasure and how you manage your erotic habits.
💥 TRUTH BOMB:
How you behave and manage yourself sexually can be one of the most powerful self-development tools you have.
It's something you probably do most days, and yet nobody is talking about it…
… and you're wasting it down the drain… literally!
How so?
What I've noticed in my own life and working with hundreds of men is just how closely your sexual habits can be connected to your happiness, your sense of worthiness and the confidence and control you feel in our lives.
Your sex and self-pleasure habits can be a literal mirror…
Fast wanks? Quick clean-ups? Compulsive porn use? Addictive app scrolling? Average hook-ups? No sex? Too much crap sex? Sex that leaves you drained and frustrated? Constantly scratching an itch that never goes away?
👀 Don't you want more for yourself than all that my friend?
I know I do… and so did the 50 men who have been through my Erotic Awakening programmes already…
But where the F do you start?!
It's a minefield out there, my friend: YouTube, blogs, podcasts, workshops, therapists, coaches, breathwork, tantra, Taoist practices, meditation.
Headache already…
Well, imagine if, for the next 30 days somebody told you exactly what to do, how to do it and for how long.
And only the best of the best of the stuff that actually works, and none of the crap that doesn’t!
Basically this for 30 days👇🏻
That's it…
No wondering what to do next.
No trying to work it out alone on YouTube.
Just open your daily prompt, look at your Big Sex Reset Calendar, check the Whatsapp Group and follow the instructions, the audio or intimate personal guided video with me and enjoy yourself.
Most days you'll only need about 10–15 minutes.
Some practices might take longer, but only if you want to. You choose.
Think about that for a sec…
This is just 15 minutes less scrolling per day or one less TV episode per week!
What would you rather be doing? Rotting your brain on IG?
Or experiencing new and exquisite, magical, orgasmic pleasure?
Hmmmm…
Let me introduce myself…
I'm Gary, Somatic Sexologist, men's intimacy specialist and Hypnotherapist for over a decade.
I've worked with hundreds and hundreds of men to help them change their relationship with their sexual selves:
Less addiction and compulsion
Less frustration and heaviness
Less boring wanks and frustrating crappy sex
More exciting and extraordinary masturbation
More enjoyable, connected and intimate sex
Happier, more fulfilled and more in control of their lives
I've spent over 10 years researching, experimenting and exploring all the sex and self-pleasure practices out there.
I've been through traditional talk therapy, tantra workshops, Taoist erotic training, breathwork and masturbation practices.
I've abstained from porn and sex, been on the apps, off the apps, I've been in control and out of control…
I've used my own life and body and sexual self as the living laboratory for you!
And along the way, I trained as a hypnotherapist and later as a somatic sexologist.
I've collected and curated the best of the best when it comes to practices, exercises and approaches that actually work and left out all the crap that doesn't (and trust me, there's a lot of it!).
So you can stop seeking and searching right now. I did it the long hard way so you don't have to…
THE BIG SEX RESET
A 30-day challenge for gay men who want to reset, rewire & renew your relationship to sex, your body & self-pleasure
You'll explore a whole range of practices that can change how you experience sex, pleasure and your erotic self.
I can't think of a better way to start the new year baby! Let’s start as we mean to go on: happy, in control, sexy, turned on and erotically alive!
Here's what you’ll be doing:
New ways to self-touch and masturbate for more pleasure
Changing your relationship to porn
Exploring your sexual imagination and fantasies with playfulness and creativity instead of shame and embarrassment
Sex breathwork and movement to unlock erotic energy and deeper, more orgasmic pleasure
Anal play and pleasure for tops who want to bottom, and bottoms who want to bottom better
Consent, communication and connection with play partners for more explosive, intimate, connected sex
And as you move through the 30 days, you'll be guided every step of the way, never left to guess, and you’ll carry on practising the things you've already discovered, experimenting with what works for you and finding new ways to enjoy yourself.
What You Get
Your full 30-day calendar, telling you exactly what to do each day (and if you need to do it over a longer period of time, that's totally fine! This is just a guide).
Intimate guided videos with me personally, showing you how to touch yourself in new, exciting, hot and horny ways (the nipple sensitisation and erotic touch guided practice has been a favourite!).
Your Masturbation Mastery guide, full of brand-new wank techniques for more intense pleasure.
Daily self-touch rituals and meditations, most of them only 7–10 minutes!
Guided Hypno-Sex audios, to explore and change the beliefs, stories and narratives you carry around sex, quieten overthinking and sex anxiety, and build more confidence in bed.
A community of other gay men from around the world, all doing it at the same time as you!
Daily emails and WhatsApp prompts, so you know exactly what you're doing each day.
Optional Live Q&A zoom calls with Gary for insights, deeper learning and coaching through challenges.
And me, your daily Erotic Guide in your back pocket, telling you exactly what to do, how to do it and for how long. You literally get a checklist to tick off as you go!
This is the biggest no-brainer ever, my man.
The only question is:
Do you want to feel happier, more alive and to like yourself more?
Do you want more confidence, autonomy and control over your life and sexual self?
Do you want more enjoyable sex and more orgasmic self-pleasure?
If you answered yes to even ONE of those questions, then The Big Sex Reset could be exactly what you've been looking for…
And for around the price of a coffee and a croissant you can start the journey to all of that and more.
Who knows what lies ahead for you?
Maybe the same as some of the men who have been through my programmes already?
