A FREE 9-DAY EROTIC JOURNEY FOR GAY MEN
The Erotic Opening
You know there is more possible for your sex life. For 9 days, let's find out what that MORE could look like for you.
- Discover what you truly want from your sex life and what might be getting in the way
- Explore your body, pleasure, masturbation, desire and sexual identity in completely new ways
- Get 9 days of questions, experiments and erotic exploration, plus your Erotic Opening Journal and Wake Up Your Wank bonus
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YOU KNOW WHEN THERE'S MORE
You know sex could be so much more.
Maybe you're having loads of sex but very little of it feels extraordinary. Perhaps you wank all the time but your satisfaction with masturbation is surprisingly low. It could be you're brilliant at giving pleasure but struggle to receive it. Or maybe you're sexually experienced but still spend half of sex in your fucking head.
Perhaps you're at the other end. You barely have sex anymore. You don't feel particularly horny, alive or connected to your sexuality. Something that once felt exciting has become a bit... beige.
Or your sex life is pretty bloody good!
But you still have that feeling...
There is more more more possible.
FOR THE NEXT 9 DAYS
Let's look at your sex life differently.
I'm going to ask you questions you may never have asked yourself about sex before.
We're going to look at who you believe you are sexually, what you truly want, what role sex plays in your life, how much pleasure your body is capable of feeling, the way you masturbate, what your best sexual experiences can teach you and what might be standing between you and the sex life you really want.
This journey will be reflective, practical and hopefully leave you thinking, "FUCK! I've never thought about sex this way before!"
I'm not interested in telling you what your sexuality should look like. I want you to discover more about yours.
Who are you as a sexual being?
What do you truly want?
And how much more is possible?
YOUR 9-DAY EROTIC EXPLORATION
Here's where we're going.
Each day I'll drop into your inbox with something new to think about, explore or try. Bring your curiosity. Bring your honesty. And be willing to discover something new about yourself.
Where are you now?
Take an honest look at your sex life as it is today. The pleasure, confidence, masturbation, partnered sex, fantasies, communication, connection and fulfilment. No bullshit. Just where you are now.
What do you actually want?
Better sex sounds great. But what does better mean for you? Get specific about what you want more of, what you're hungry for and the erotic life you'd create if you stopped limiting the possibilities.
Who are you sexually?
Look at the beliefs you've collected about your body, desirability, masculinity, experience and worth. Who have you decided you are as a sexual man, and does that identity still fit?
What role have you given sex?
Sex can give us pleasure, but it can also give us stimulation, validation, structure, escape, connection and the feeling of being wanted. Start noticing what your sexual patterns may be doing for you beyond getting you off.
How much pleasure can you feel?
Your cock and arse aren't the only erotic parts of your body. Begin exploring your entire body, from head to toe, as one big sexual organ and discover where pleasure may have been waiting unnoticed.
Wake Up Your Wank
Same hand, grip, speed, position, porn? Day 6 comes with a surprise bonus designed to shake up the way you masturbate and turn self-pleasure into a sexy playground for exploration.
Great sex leaves clues.
Think about the sex that made you go WOW!! The encounters you still remember. They weren't necessarily random. We're going looking for the ingredients that made them extraordinary.
What gets in the way?
You can know what you want and still struggle to create it. Look at the shame, confidence, communication, boundaries, rejection, receiving and old patterns that may be getting between you and more.
Your Erotic Opening
Bring everything together. What have you discovered? What do you want to change? What do you want to explore? And most importantly, what are you going to do with what you've now seen?
From sexually stimulated to erotically alive.
THIS ISN'T JUST SOMETHING TO READ
You're going to explore.
I want you thinking, writing, noticing, experimenting and getting curious about yourself. So alongside the daily emails, I've created a few things to get you out of your head and into the exploration.
Your companion for the journey, with questions and exercises to help you look at your sex life, pleasure, patterns, desires and what you want more of.
Small invitations to do something different, notice what happens and start collecting real information about your body and sexuality.
A bonus 7-part exploration to shake up your usual masturbation routine and discover completely different ways of touching, moving, breathing and experiencing pleasure.
I'll be there every day asking questions, sharing what I've learned from my own sexual journey and inviting you deeper into yours.
THIS IS THE BEGINNING
Your sexuality isn't finished yet.
Wherever you are sexually right now isn't the end of your sexual potential.
There are parts of your body you haven't explored. Desires you haven't understood. Conversations you haven't had. Ways of giving and receiving pleasure you haven't discovered. Experiences you haven't created yet.
There is more waiting for you.
I'M ON THIS ADVENTURE TOO
I'm Gary.
I've spent years exploring one question: how much more is possible for us sexually?
Partly because my own sex life gave me plenty to investigate. I've had phenomenal fucks, unforgettable lovemaking, shit hook-ups, rushed pointless wanks, periods of sexual compulsion, shame, insecurity, numbness, wild exploration and moments that completely changed what I believed was possible in my body.
That journey eventually led me into the work I do today with gay, bi, queer and questioning men around sex, pleasure, intimacy and erotic exploration.
I don't teach this stuff from some imaginary grand high place of having it all figured out. I'm in the exploration too. I notice my patterns, interrogate them, experiment with my own sexuality and keep discovering more.
The Erotic Opening is my invitation for you to start doing the same.
THE EROTIC OPENING
There is more possible for you.
Nine days. Your sex life. Your body. Your pleasure. Your patterns. Your desires. Your questions. And an invitation to discover what might be waiting at the edges of your sexual potential.
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